Posts Tagged ‘DI

30
Jul
13

Getting Started with EI: Developmental Intervention

Today we’ll have our first visit with our DI. She’s going to work on various things with D, and I’m excited about this meeting.

I have seen amazing changes in him just from the little bit of focus we’ve learned how to spend on some different things. I was really frightened about Early Intervention at first.

It made me feel like a failure that he’s requiring additional oversight, and it brought back all those old feelings from the start of our preemie journey. The actual experience has been very empowering. Even when I was stressed that he might not qualify after some areas of improvement were identified.

Last week, I had a huge set of meetings and projects at work so D spent a couple days with the “grandmas,” his Great Granny and my M-I-L. During that time, he had his first playdate with a little boy we know. This little boy and D had due dates within 3 days of each other. Drake is chronologically older by about 3 months. I had a rough weekend contemplating this conversations with my MIL. 

Me: So how did it go with, B?

MIL: They didn’t really spend much time together at the playground.

Me: Oh?

MIL: Well, B can run all over. D just can’t keep up.

Ouch, another one right in the preemie mama feels. Now I have to decide is more interaction with his peers a good idea? Do we hold back more and just concentrate on therapies for a while? He loves other kids, but I don’t want him steamrolled. I’m definitely having second thoughts about the 1-2 days of school we were planning on in the fall with other 18 month olds.

I think I’ll just plan on taking him on a tour when the year starts. If they have a spot left and being around the other kids goes ok, it’s meant to be. His pediatrician thinks healthwise it’s time to try him out. 

Preemie mama zen. I got this. 🙂

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26
Jul
13

Exciting Times

I love the point we have reached. We’ve received our six month EI plan. August appointments have been set for therapy and other follow ups.

It feels good to know what we have been working on well and what could be adjusted.

It is hard to deal with those who assume we weren’t doing things right when there really is no right or wrong with developmental delays.

We can’t answer when he’ll be “fine” or “caught up” whatever that means anyway. But the three of us and our therapy/medical team are doing our best. And we’re going to enjoy learning together.




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